I think first you just always have to be your authentic self, never really trying to prove anything and knowing that the path that the Lord has brought you on speaks volumes in itself, so you never have to show that card, you never have to go into any relationship trying to muster up the strength to be enough. If you would take the time to be, and pursue the Lord to be your authentic self, you know how to look for other people that are also authentic. 

What’s keeping you up at night? What is preventing you from resting like you need to be resting? Maybe it’s sleep for you, or maybe it’s just not being able to find 30 minutes a day to sit and relax and drink a cup of your favorite drink and read a book or something that you need to be replenishing with. Ask yourself, “what is that one thing that might be blocking me from having that 30 minutes of replenishing time or getting enough sleep at night?” and then just really pray over that area that it would be supernaturally dealt with. God loves to intervene and help us in supernatural ways simply because we’re His kids and He loves us so much!